The woman refuses to cancel a trip to Europe for the mother and “dying” internet of Boyfriend

A personal tragedy has become viral online while a young woman contacted others to help navigate her sticky travel situation.

After a lot of back and forth, she said that she “now refused to help my boyfriend’s dying mother while planning a trip to Europe”-and wondered what others thought.

Fox News Digital contacted a clinical psychologist for Insight while the people of Reddit weighed on the drama.

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Describing herself as 25 years, the woman said that she was living with her boyfriend – and about a month ago, her mother “began to say that she was dying of cancer, but no diagnosis was confirmed. Each visit to the hospital ends with her who was sent home. A nurse (said) that she could simulate,” wrote the woman.

The mother asked to “stay one night” at the small apartment of the couple, who “turned into a week of chaos,” said the young woman.

A woman writing on Reddit said that she “refused to help the dying mother of my boyfriend while planning a trip to Europe” – and she asked others their honest opinions on her difficult situation. (istock)

“The apartment felt horrible, everything had to be dark and silent, and it constantly demanded help,” wrote the woman.

Then the mother “suggested moving with her, an hour from our job / our school”.

The young woman said that she was a full -time student currently occupying two jobs, and she started “late”.

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His boyfriend changed his full -time job in a fully distant position so that he could take care of his mother, added the young woman.

Health updates “still changed,” she said. “MRI, canceled surgery, then chemo, referred to the infection, then E. coli. Always a new reason. No diagnosis or clear paperwork,” she continued.

The young woman then described a scenario in which “we were supposed to take her to the emergency room … but we ended up staying 4 pm (with the mother) by doing chores. I folded 420 clothes, cleaned the whole house and I felt like his unpaid maid. Not one please or thank you.”

A young woman from Reddit described the work she has done for the mother of her boyfriend, who is apparently ill – and now the young woman questions the whole situation when she provides for a trip to Europe. (istock)

She continued: “She was in the corner to go to the emergency room, and when we finally arrived at 5 am, she said that she was coming to come and sent us back to us. Three hours later, she recalled, sobbing with the help. She had been rejected by the emergencies.”

Wrote the woman: “I suspect that she simulated her.”

The young woman said that she and her boyfriend had “jumped meals, lost sleep and late work to help her”.

“If it was your mother, would you help her?”

To further complicate things, the mother’s boyfriend, an apparent alcoholic, began to send the young couple “aggressive texts” – then “apologized later”, according to the wire.

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The mother then “recalled again, asking me help. But this time she wanted Me … I needed this weekend to study for final exams. And going to this house alone seemed summary. “”

The young woman said that she was now planning a “trip to Europe to see my mother, whom I have not seen for more than a year”.

A woman wondered if she was wrong to “go home to Europe” to see her own mother while her boyfriend’s mother suffers from a range of problems. (istock)

While the boyfriend said he supported his trip for several weeks, he also told her that she was “a little selfish,” wrote the woman.

The boyfriend apparently asked him: “If I die dying, have you abandoned your work to be with me?” And “If it was your mother, would you help her?”

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The woman said that she “felt under pressure to say yes. But the truth is that my family would not lie to me or would not use me like that.”

The woman concluded that she “loves” her boyfriend and wants to “be there for him. But I don’t trust her mother, and it’s starting to affect our relationship.”

She then wondered if she was wrong to “go home to Europe”.

A woman writing on Reddit (not illustrated) is in conflict on her own trip to Europe and the apparently ill mother of her boyfriend. (istock)

Some 5,000 people have reacted to the personal situation to date – with the vast majority extends with the young stressed woman.

“Why is his family more important than yours?”

Wrote a high -level commentator: “I know you like your boyfriend, but you have to ask yourself if you are ready to abandon your own life for him and his mother, because it will never stop. It could stop if he chooses to set limits, but that does not seem to be doing it.”

Wrote another person: “Break up. Make it. Go on vacation. Stop dealing with mom Crazy and (boyfriend).”

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Said another person again: “Why is his family more important than yours? I would tell him that he should move it to assisted life or an apartment and hire help. Let her know that while you love him, you do not light up your future on fire to help someone who does not help themselves.”

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And again another person wrote: “Stay in Europe would be my advice. It seems exhausting.”

Said another commentator: “run! Escape!”